Manifestation, Spiritual Wisdom, and Soulmates, with David Ghiyam

[00:00:00] Kabbalah gave me a blueprint of how to make decisions in life and why everything was happening.

[00:00:07] The most difficult time of your lives is often moments before the breakthrough comes.

[00:00:16] I am so excited to do this podcast because I have never interviewed a cult leader.

[00:00:24] This is my first cult leader, David Ghiyam.

[00:00:27] I appreciate that.

[00:00:31] And let's start with the cult of Kabbalah and what exactly it is and what are the levels of the cult and how do you get to the top?

[00:00:43] To clarify for my audience, I am a part of it.

[00:00:47] So it's not a cult.

[00:00:51] I don't even know what the negative qualities of cults are.

[00:00:55] When I think of cult, I think of power.

[00:01:00] And I think you're an extremely powerful person, leader, not just because of the way that you speak, but because of the way the room is organized, the energy between the people.

[00:01:16] You're talking about my classes.

[00:01:17] Yeah, your classes, the energy between the people that are there, how I feel when I get there, when I leave.

[00:01:25] It's a very positive experience.

[00:01:27] Thank you.

[00:01:27] So, yeah, I'm all for it.

[00:01:29] And I'm totally joking about the cult thing.

[00:01:32] And then also, you were a co-founder of Mary Ruth Organics.

[00:01:39] Yeah.

[00:01:39] So I want to get into both of those.

[00:01:41] Sure.

[00:01:42] Yeah, it's a good story behind both.

[00:01:43] Yeah.

[00:01:43] Let's start with Kabbalah, how you got into it.

[00:01:47] Okay.

[00:01:47] So I'll probably, I was 15 years old.

[00:01:52] I started, I was actually a professional poker player.

[00:01:54] I didn't know that.

[00:01:55] Yeah.

[00:01:56] A lot of people don't know that.

[00:01:56] So I used to be really, I had a really intense personality.

[00:01:59] So I started to get into a lot of gambling and poker was my favorite.

[00:02:03] I had like five to eight hours a day.

[00:02:05] Sometimes I would just go to casinos and just play.

[00:02:09] They wouldn't know how old I was.

[00:02:12] And that then morphed into my uncle telling me about the spiritual wisdom of Kabbalah.

[00:02:17] I thought it was religion.

[00:02:19] So at first I said, no, I wasn't into that.

[00:02:21] But he's like, no, it's spirituality.

[00:02:22] You should just go to a class.

[00:02:24] At that same time, I started to also take my poker money and trade in the stock market.

[00:02:30] And then became a millionaire at 15.

[00:02:32] Holy shit.

[00:02:32] So all of those things combined took my life in a path that probably wasn't so positive.

[00:02:38] Kabbalah, however, I went to one class.

[00:02:41] The teacher explained that Kabbalah is the ancient, universal, spiritual laws of life for the human soul, for every soul in this world, regardless of what religion you are.

[00:02:51] And that it will explain the why behind everything, the why behind relationships, the why behind soulmates, the why behind why we chose the parents we chose, why of reincarnation.

[00:03:01] Like any question you have, it can be explained.

[00:03:03] So I loved it.

[00:03:05] It changed my life.

[00:03:06] I went deep into it.

[00:03:07] I was 19 years old.

[00:03:08] I graduated from UCLA.

[00:03:10] And I said, I want to join a nonprofit.

[00:03:12] I took a vow of poverty.

[00:03:14] And I dedicated my whole life to just teaching this wisdom.

[00:03:16] So I've given, you know, 3,000 seminars.

[00:03:20] I've done 30,000 hours of coaching.

[00:03:22] And I did it all for charity.

[00:03:23] So I never monetized it.

[00:03:24] I have a question.

[00:03:25] In what way did it change your life that early on?

[00:03:28] I saw very quickly that Kabbalah gave me a blueprint of how to make decisions in life and why everything was happening.

[00:03:38] So I was looking at all my friends.

[00:03:41] And I was seeing that they were very reactive.

[00:03:43] There were up and downs.

[00:03:44] And there was a lot of chaos.

[00:03:45] And I also saw that these secrets could help me manifest more wealth, more wisdom, more everything.

[00:03:52] Because I applied it and I saw the miracles right away.

[00:03:55] And so that was very appealing to me.

[00:03:57] I did kind of get interested in it for the wrong reasons because I saw that with Kabbalah you could be very successful.

[00:04:02] Later on I realized that this is actually my soul's purpose of why I came to this world.

[00:04:06] To transform myself, to create miracles, but also to help others.

[00:04:10] Define miracles.

[00:04:12] So the miracles I was experiencing, one of the best ways I can explain it is that there are two realities that are parallel to each other.

[00:04:21] And the first reality is the one that most people experience, which is filled with ups and downs.

[00:04:26] They're empty and full, empty and full.

[00:04:28] They're always trying to control things, but they don't feel like they're fully in control.

[00:04:34] And if there are a couple moments of joy and happiness throughout the day, they're happy.

[00:04:40] There's another reality where you're perfectly in sync with a path where everything starts to come to you in a very beautiful way.

[00:04:47] You don't feel lack.

[00:04:48] You don't feel up and down.

[00:04:50] You don't feel uncertainty.

[00:04:51] You don't feel anxiety.

[00:04:52] You don't feel stress.

[00:04:54] This is almost like, this is what we call the miraculous world, but actually that is the world we should be experiencing on a regular basis.

[00:04:59] A lot of people experience it when they're on drugs.

[00:05:02] Certain drugs can give you euphoria and certainty, but only for a couple hours and then you crash.

[00:05:07] So drugs are actually a way to kind of show you that there is a reality, but you can't access it via drugs because that's temporary.

[00:05:14] You haven't earned that reality.

[00:05:16] Kabbalah gives you the framework as was originally intended from the beginning of time since Abraham, actually.

[00:05:21] Abraham was the first person to teach this wisdom.

[00:05:25] How to access this reality on a regular basis to experience these miracles in your life, these green lights, the certainty, the peace of mind.

[00:05:33] This is what we're all looking for, but people are only getting samples of it everywhere they go.

[00:05:38] I always give the example that you go to Costco, you go to one of these grocery stores.

[00:05:45] I went to Air One the other day and they gave out samples.

[00:05:48] Samples are nice, but the whole point of a sample is that you eventually buy the full product.

[00:05:53] Imagine a person who only goes to Costco to eat samples and for breakfast, lunch, and dinner they eat samples and they're eating all the samples.

[00:06:00] We find this to be very inappropriate and eventually this person will be kicked out.

[00:06:03] Most of the world is experiencing the pleasures of life via the samples they're getting.

[00:06:09] Whether it's I achieve this, I feel good for a moment.

[00:06:13] Or I have this kind of relationship that makes me feel good for a moment.

[00:06:18] Or I'm career driven so I achieve something, I achieve a new position that fulfills me.

[00:06:23] I make a certain amount of money or drugs or everyone's looking forward to something that fulfills them for a moment and then they feel empty again.

[00:06:30] So these are all just samples.

[00:06:32] They're meant to show us that there is actually something bigger, the full product.

[00:06:35] So Kabbalah is teaching you when you access the full power of your soul, you draw down the quote unquote full product.

[00:06:41] You can consistently stay at that elevated place much longer.

[00:06:44] Doesn't mean you don't have challenges.

[00:06:46] Challenges will come no matter what and there's reasons for that.

[00:06:48] But your experience of those challenges, the euphoria that you feel through those challenges can be there all the time.

[00:06:56] Wow.

[00:06:57] So even when you go through challenges, you are in a euphoric state.

[00:07:03] You personally.

[00:07:04] So me personally, what I would say is that I've been through some of the worst types of challenges that nobody would ever want to go through.

[00:07:15] And if it wasn't for Kabbalah, I would, let's put it this way.

[00:07:20] When I went through these challenges, maybe the pain lasted for minutes, sometimes hours.

[00:07:25] And then some of the worst cases, days and weeks.

[00:07:28] Had it not been for Kabbalah, it would have been years.

[00:07:30] It would have been crippling.

[00:07:31] It would have been depression.

[00:07:33] Priority would have been suicidal.

[00:07:34] That's how bad it was.

[00:07:35] Wow.

[00:07:36] The types of news I heard, the types of rejections I went through, the types of loss I had, some really scary things that happened to me.

[00:07:45] Had I not had Kabbalah, two things would have happened.

[00:07:49] My mental state would have been completely in the toilet.

[00:07:53] But number two, because of Kabbalah, I was able to speed up the process and end the painful situation much faster.

[00:07:59] So a lot of my students who study Kabbalah, let's say they go through a breakup.

[00:08:02] That's like the biggest thing.

[00:08:03] Breakups are very painful.

[00:08:06] And they could be dwelling over the breakup, in pain about the breakup, worried about the other person moving on.

[00:08:14] Somebody messaged me today and they said, you know, we broke her up and he moved on so quick.

[00:08:18] And he got engaged and he's happy.

[00:08:20] And now I'm in so much pain.

[00:08:22] The answer is, if you knew Kabbalah, if you studied it, this pain would last maybe days, not years as it is now.

[00:08:30] Because you see the whole picture, you understand what's going on.

[00:08:33] Then you access something really deep and powerful inside yourself that is literally like a drug where you do not feel the pain.

[00:08:40] But what is going on in a situation like that?

[00:08:43] Like the breakup?

[00:08:44] Yeah, like the breakup.

[00:08:45] What do you say to someone who calls you and tells you, I'm so upset, my partner moved on.

[00:08:51] What do you tell them?

[00:08:54] Well, number one, when a person has a desire to receive some kind of fulfillment.

[00:09:00] So let's say you put it out into the universe that you want to meet your soulmate.

[00:09:04] And you want to be happy and you want to be successful financially.

[00:09:08] So you put these two things out there.

[00:09:10] As soon as you have this desire, the energy of soulmate and the energy of wealth begins to come to you.

[00:09:19] The problem is that you don't currently have the vessel to hold that energy that now you've summoned.

[00:09:25] A vessel is very important.

[00:09:27] If the vessel is not there, the energy can't be manifested.

[00:09:29] For example, if I want to experience a thousand watts of energy, I need a thousand watt bulb.

[00:09:34] If I have a 60 watt bulb, I'm not going to shine as bright as a thousand watts.

[00:09:38] A lot of people are summoning and requesting a thousand watts of energy.

[00:09:43] Thousand watt soulmate.

[00:09:44] Thousand watt wealth.

[00:09:45] Thousand watt lifestyle.

[00:09:46] Thousand watt.

[00:09:47] But they only have a 60 watt bulb to hold that energy.

[00:09:50] So what happens is the energy surrounds you and begins to push you forward and breaks you in order to expand you to a thousand watts.

[00:09:59] That process often can be that someone will come into your life, make you fall in love with them, and then leave you in order to expand you.

[00:10:06] In fact, that whole process was already pre-written to elevate you to your next destiny.

[00:10:11] This often happens also with people who are close to us who pass away.

[00:10:14] It says that often, I know it's kind of morbid and we're going there, but we're probably sharing it because someone in your audience needs to hear it.

[00:10:21] Like when a child passes away under the age of 12 for a girl or 13 for a boy, it says that these souls come as volunteers from the beginning, knowing that they're going to pass away.

[00:10:33] Knowing and summoning that disease or that accident.

[00:10:36] Because it's what the parents' souls needed in order to break that soul and expand their vessel because they have a big potential they're supposed to reveal in the future.

[00:10:46] It's in fact so painful that most people don't see it.

[00:10:50] But most of the people I've worked with who have lost someone very close to them, especially a child, end up manifesting great things in their lives later on.

[00:11:01] Their potential is revealed.

[00:11:03] So that's another, it's more of a morbid example.

[00:11:07] Do you have an example of that?

[00:11:09] Personally?

[00:11:10] Yeah.

[00:11:10] And you don't have to name names, but someone whose child has...

[00:11:15] So I know many, and I can tell you just even Mary Ruth, when we started the business, she came to study Kabbalah.

[00:11:24] That's how we met.

[00:11:27] Well, it might be like, I think 15 years ago.

[00:11:30] Because when she was 18, her 17-year-old brother passed away suddenly in sleep.

[00:11:36] And when she was 12, her father passed away.

[00:11:40] Two things.

[00:11:40] And then right after that, her mom got two brain tumors, a surgery that caused her to be paralyzed.

[00:11:46] And then when Mary Ruth was probably in her early 20s, she was about to lose her final family member.

[00:11:53] She realized she had to save her mom's life.

[00:11:57] So she got into health and wellness.

[00:11:59] And that's how she really became known as a health expert.

[00:12:03] She saved her mom's life.

[00:12:05] And then they both wanted to understand why these sudden deaths occurred.

[00:12:09] And they weren't getting answers through therapy.

[00:12:11] So they came to Kabbalah.

[00:12:13] Many people had recommended to her to come.

[00:12:15] And that's how she came.

[00:12:16] She learned about the soul's journey, about reincarnation, why these things happened.

[00:12:20] She started to have peace.

[00:12:21] And then we met.

[00:12:22] And that's how we started building what was Mary Ruth Organic.

[00:12:26] So, which is obviously today, like, you know, her face is in 20 million households around just the U.S. alone.

[00:12:36] So that destiny of getting into health and wellness, creating one of the most well-known health and wellness products, this was always her destiny.

[00:12:44] And it was the tragedy that she went through that built her vessel and pushed her to go down that pathway.

[00:12:50] Wow.

[00:12:50] That is so powerful.

[00:12:52] Yeah.

[00:12:52] That's just one.

[00:12:52] I mean, I have hundreds of examples like that.

[00:12:54] But so I do want to talk to you about this.

[00:13:00] So I understand the motive behind Mary Ruth Organics.

[00:13:04] Yeah.

[00:13:05] That happened.

[00:13:06] And she's trying to figure out, like, what could have caused this.

[00:13:09] That was it.

[00:13:12] And when you started this company, how did you experience the miracles of it expanding to the level that it did?

[00:13:19] Because it's everywhere.

[00:13:21] Yeah.

[00:13:21] I mean, you look on Amazon.

[00:13:24] You look online.

[00:13:25] It's just everywhere.

[00:13:26] Everyone's using it.

[00:13:27] Yeah.

[00:13:27] Yeah.

[00:13:28] So I don't think I've ever shared this story on a podcast before, so I'll share it with you now.

[00:13:36] When we started the company in 2014, we had no money.

[00:13:42] I've been in the nonprofit world, so I wasn't making even a salary.

[00:13:47] She actually, from the passing of her father and brother, there was a collapse of a very successful company.

[00:13:54] They had a lumber company.

[00:13:56] She was in personal debt of close to a million dollars.

[00:14:00] So when we got together, she had the debt and I had no income.

[00:14:04] And together we said, okay, well, how are we going to do this?

[00:14:08] And so we bootstrapped this company.

[00:14:10] I basically, actually, before I even tell you how we started the company, a year before that, I was in such, I was helping people all around the world for 10 years learn the spiritual wisdom of Kabbalah and change their life.

[00:14:23] But then when I got married at the time, I didn't have any money and I actually went into this really victim mindset of, wait a minute, I know this wisdom.

[00:14:33] I'm helping hundreds of thousands of people around the world and I myself am broke.

[00:14:39] This doesn't make any sense.

[00:14:40] And I actually felt this victim pain and I couldn't even support my family, couldn't even get food, like couldn't afford anything.

[00:14:48] We were behind on rent for six months.

[00:14:51] And then I realized, wait, Kabbalah explains that this is all an illusion.

[00:14:55] I was walking down New York City and I said to myself, I don't have any lack.

[00:15:00] I'm a billionaire.

[00:15:01] I started to look at all the buildings and I started to say, I own these buildings.

[00:15:05] I mean, I was acting like I was delusional, but I changed my mindset to one of complete joy and happiness.

[00:15:12] And I remember that day, Mary was like, you're totally different.

[00:15:16] What happened?

[00:15:17] And I never went back to the victim.

[00:15:19] I felt like I was so whole.

[00:15:21] I felt I already had everything.

[00:15:23] A week later, we came up with an idea for the liquid vitamins.

[00:15:26] A week later it came.

[00:15:28] And then I made a call to a manufacturer when we made a formula up and the woman's like, well, the minimum is 20,000 bottles.

[00:15:35] I said, well, I can afford 20 bottles.

[00:15:37] She started laughing in my face.

[00:15:38] She said, don't waste my time.

[00:15:39] She'll hang out the phone.

[00:15:40] I said, no, no, listen to me.

[00:15:41] I don't know why, but one day I'll be your biggest customer.

[00:15:45] I need you to make me 20 bottles.

[00:15:46] She's like, I'm not going to turn on my machinery for 20 bottles.

[00:15:49] Yeah.

[00:15:50] I said, do whatever it takes because I promise you I was sent to you for a reason.

[00:15:55] She's like, I don't know why I'm going to say yes, but I'm going to do it.

[00:15:58] So she sent us 20 bottles.

[00:16:00] I was only sleeping about two, three hours a night at this point because when everybody went to bed, I would learn Amazon.

[00:16:05] I would learn graphic design.

[00:16:07] I would learn marketing.

[00:16:08] I would learn, I mean, just hours and hours of YouTube videos from 10 at night till about 3, 4 in the morning.

[00:16:13] I would sleep for a couple hours to start the day.

[00:16:14] You're self-taught.

[00:16:15] Yeah.

[00:16:15] Self-taught everything.

[00:16:16] By the way, this is so powerful that you're saying this.

[00:16:18] And I know this is going to help a lot of people because it's not necessarily college or university that gets people to this point.

[00:16:26] I have interviewed so many people that are self-taught.

[00:16:29] They figured everything out on their own.

[00:16:31] Every resource is available to everyone at this moment.

[00:16:34] Phones, computers, everything is there.

[00:16:37] Most of it for free.

[00:16:37] And so I had zero background in any of this.

[00:16:42] You know, I gave a, one of my most popular seminars is a prosperity mastery where I talk about the five things that we did to build the brand spiritually.

[00:16:50] And one of them was this concept where I call overwhelming the system.

[00:16:54] So what I do when I want to manifest something is I overwhelm it.

[00:16:58] I suffocate it and I throw everything at it.

[00:17:01] I learned to master it.

[00:17:03] So I mastered design.

[00:17:04] I mastered manufacturing.

[00:17:05] I mastered marketing.

[00:17:08] I learned everything there was about Facebook.

[00:17:10] I learned everything that was about Amazon.

[00:17:11] I went to lunches with people who had already mastered it.

[00:17:15] I surrounded myself with people who knew the secrets.

[00:17:20] I joined masterminds.

[00:17:21] I invested any dollar, anything I could.

[00:17:24] I suffocated it because I'm trying to show the universe that I mean business and that there's no excuse not to manifest this for me.

[00:17:32] As long as you leave an opening, the negative side comes in and detracts from manifestation.

[00:17:38] So I will suffocate it to the point.

[00:17:40] I have so many stories of this too, of how I hire people.

[00:17:43] Like every miracle I've created is I overwhelm the system to the point where it manifests.

[00:17:48] So with the business, that's what I did.

[00:17:50] I said, well, I'm going to become the best Amazon seller.

[00:17:53] And by the way, today, 10 years later, we're the number one seller of vitamins nationwide on Amazon.

[00:17:58] Most people don't know that.

[00:17:59] But it started at the C level of I knew I was going to get there.

[00:18:03] And then I took every course there was, even if it was a redundant course, everything you can imagine I did.

[00:18:08] I went to every event.

[00:18:10] I left no stone left unturned.

[00:18:12] Mary Ruth did her part.

[00:18:13] I did my part.

[00:18:15] And those 20 bottles sold on Amazon.

[00:18:18] I think we made $300 that day.

[00:18:20] And it was one of the most emotional moments to be able to make money while you sleep.

[00:18:25] We hadn't had that before because Mary Ruth was meeting people one-on-one, teaching them health and wellness and helping them overcome health issues.

[00:18:33] She was meeting 12 people a day for free, 12 hours a day.

[00:18:39] One person would sign up out of those 12 and pay for the program.

[00:18:44] But she was working till 11 o'clock at night.

[00:18:46] During that time, she also had four miscarriages.

[00:18:48] Even one time, she had a miscarriage during one of her meetings.

[00:18:51] But she didn't tell the person because she had to actually get the $300 for that session that she needed to pay our rent.

[00:19:00] So she went to the bathroom, had the miscarriage, came back and finished the meeting and finished the rest of the meetings the rest of the day and only told me that night that it happened.

[00:19:08] So there was a lot of pain and suffering right before the building of the business.

[00:19:14] Because that's kind of the point of what I said before.

[00:19:15] Like right before something great is going to manifest, it's going to be a lot of pain.

[00:19:19] It's going to be a lot of darkness.

[00:19:20] A lot of the negativity is going to come up to the surface so you can cleanse it.

[00:19:23] A lot of your doubts, a lot of your fears will come up to the surface right before you meet your soulmate, right before you have children, right before you have a great company, right before something great will manifest, the garbage comes up to the surface.

[00:19:35] So it did.

[00:19:36] So those 20 bottles sold.

[00:19:38] We made $300.

[00:19:38] We said, wow, this is amazing.

[00:19:39] If we can just get to $10,000 a month, we'll be set for the rest of our life.

[00:19:42] That's what he said.

[00:19:44] That year, I think the company did around $500,000 and then $2.5 million and then $5 and then $10 and then $20 and then $80 and then $120 and $160.

[00:19:59] And that was still three years ago without getting into the details of where we are now.

[00:20:02] You guys are on another level.

[00:20:05] You truly are.

[00:20:06] And we didn't hire one employee until we had $10 million in revenue.

[00:20:09] We said every single dollar we're going to have, like we're going to wear every hat.

[00:20:13] We wore every hat, every customer service, compliance, quality manufacturing.

[00:20:18] We said every dollar we have, if we want to be competitive, we have to reinvest into marketing and reinvest into innovation.

[00:20:25] And that was kind of the beginnings of how it took off.

[00:20:30] Today, we have around 170 employees.

[00:20:33] We have about 230 products.

[00:20:37] And all those miracles came from just, I think, the spirituality and the understanding of how the world works.

[00:20:44] David, one thing that I really love about you, and I think I've told you this before, is as a man, how much, first of all, how highly you speak of Mary Ruth and how you're not threatened by her success.

[00:21:02] Some men can't have that.

[00:21:04] I've seen it so much, especially in LA.

[00:21:07] Yeah.

[00:21:07] Men are very threatened by a woman's success.

[00:21:10] You are there to support and uplift her under any circumstance.

[00:21:15] Yeah.

[00:21:17] What was that like?

[00:21:18] What was that like, and what was it about her?

[00:21:21] And also, I want to get into her qualities, too, because I think she's very inspirational.

[00:21:27] Thank you.

[00:21:28] Well, Kabbalah has taught me since a young age that the female represents the vessel, and the male represents the channel of energy.

[00:21:36] And so the only way really to be successful is if you have strong female energy that is supported, respected, and elevated.

[00:21:46] It's not even about men, women, feminism, masculine, masculine, feminine.

[00:21:50] Throw all that out the window.

[00:21:52] It's about manifestation.

[00:21:54] In order to manifest something, you have to respect female energy because female is the vessel.

[00:21:59] It's like the moon is the female.

[00:22:00] The sun is the male.

[00:22:02] Well, the moon shines because of the light of the sun, but we need – or the egg, for example.

[00:22:08] The egg is the vessel.

[00:22:09] The sperm is the energy.

[00:22:11] The sperm is nothing without the egg and vice versa, but we need the vessel.

[00:22:15] Without the vessel, as we've learned earlier, people can draw as much energy as they want.

[00:22:20] If you don't have a vessel for it, you're going to short circuit.

[00:22:22] A great $10,000 bottle of wine is only as good as the cup you put it in.

[00:22:28] If I put a styrofoam cup that I just drank coffee from and I say pour this wine in the styrofoam cup, nobody's going to feel the energy of the wine.

[00:22:36] It's all about the vessel.

[00:22:37] So learning early on, I knew that for us to be successful, the female energy had to be elevated.

[00:22:43] And so this is why it's not called David Organics.

[00:22:46] It's called Mary Ruth Organics.

[00:22:48] And not only that, she thinks on a level that I never did.

[00:22:56] I think I think pretty big today, but she thought – she saw two things.

[00:23:02] She saw a vision that the whole world would be taking these products.

[00:23:06] I thought it was silly.

[00:23:07] And remind me to tell you of how she even manifested Gary V to be on the board, which is all the other crazy story.

[00:23:11] And then she said also that the quality had to be very – on a level that no other brand had.

[00:23:18] I remember bringing her 20 product ideas.

[00:23:20] She threw – she literally picked up all 20 and she threw them in the trash.

[00:23:25] And she said, I'm not selling anything less than the best quality.

[00:23:28] Come back with 20 more ideas.

[00:23:29] I saw – and I said, but these are going to make money.

[00:23:31] Because at the beginning, I just needed cash flow to survive.

[00:23:34] She's like, we're not here to make money.

[00:23:35] We're here to really solve a problem for the world.

[00:23:40] And so she threw it in the trash.

[00:23:41] I had to start over.

[00:23:42] And when the brand was doing $3 million in revenue, I found somebody to buy us for $30 million.

[00:23:47] And I went to her and she said, you're thinking so small.

[00:23:50] She's like, I'm not selling the company.

[00:23:51] I said, I don't know how much more it's going to grow.

[00:23:54] And she's like, get this nonsense away from me.

[00:23:58] And, you know, thank God she did because it's a unicorn brand today because of her.

[00:24:02] But, you know, so that's her power.

[00:24:05] And I think that there's a lot of spiritual lessons I learned from her and what she's done.

[00:24:11] She thinks unlimited.

[00:24:12] She has no limited belief system about receiving.

[00:24:15] And that's the second concept I teach in my class.

[00:24:18] Belief system about receiving is everything in terms of manifesting either big or small.

[00:24:24] So female energy is important.

[00:24:26] And every male energy in this world needs to have strong female energy somehow, some way, some form, only for the sake of manifestation.

[00:24:34] It cannot manifest alone.

[00:24:38] So that was kind of my inspiration to, you know, have her be the face of the brand.

[00:24:44] And how did you get Gary Vee on your board?

[00:24:47] So it was, I remember it was the first year she was listening to Gary Vee's videos because we were going through a tough time.

[00:24:53] It was very inspiring.

[00:24:54] And she said to me, she's like, you know, one day we're going to, one day Gary Vee is going to be on the board of our company and we're going to do a collaboration with him.

[00:25:03] And I'm all looking at it.

[00:25:04] I'm like, what are you talking about?

[00:25:05] Like, I was so not, I was like literally just trying to survive.

[00:25:09] She's like, you'll see.

[00:25:10] Fast forward two years ago, you know, now that we're at a certain stage, VaynerMedia reaches out to us and says, can we do your marketing?

[00:25:19] I wrote back and said, no, we do all our marketing in-house.

[00:25:21] We don't use agencies.

[00:25:24] They didn't want to accept that answer.

[00:25:26] So they had Gary film a video while he was driving his car.

[00:25:29] He was looking at the video and say, hey, Mary Ruth, this is Gary.

[00:25:33] We'd love to work with you guys at VaynerMedia.

[00:25:37] Mary Ruth saw the video.

[00:25:38] She laughed.

[00:25:39] She's like, we don't work with agencies.

[00:25:41] So she took out the kid's toy car and started fake driving it and filmed a video for Gary that said, I'm not going to work with you on marketing,

[00:25:49] but you're more than welcome to be on my board if you want.

[00:25:52] Gary writes back and says, I'm flying down to LA.

[00:25:54] Let's have breakfast.

[00:25:56] We have breakfast.

[00:25:57] And I think like a couple of weeks later, he joined the board.

[00:26:00] And then I think a couple of weeks after that, we did a collab.

[00:26:04] We created an adult multivitamin gummy with a V Friends character at the time where the NFT craze was going nuts.

[00:26:11] And so we dropped it and it was a huge success.

[00:26:13] Wait, that's actually so crazy because I've known Gary, I think for about nine years.

[00:26:18] I discovered him like before he was coming up and my friend Perry put us in touch.

[00:26:24] And he is such a fascinating person.

[00:26:27] So inspirational.

[00:26:29] He was the first person where I would watch him on Instagram.

[00:26:35] And he was like, who cares what your parent says or what this person says or that person says.

[00:26:39] And it was the first time that had registered in my brain because I was listening to what everyone else was telling me.

[00:26:45] Be like this.

[00:26:46] So they choose you, invite you so you can be included.

[00:26:49] And very, very Persian thing for me.

[00:26:53] And I was always so different and like out of the box and, you know, wanting to talk to everybody and whatever.

[00:27:00] And when I saw his videos, I was so moved by it.

[00:27:04] I think I've like cried watching this guy's videos.

[00:27:07] And I would see him around and he'd be like, hey, what's up?

[00:27:10] And I was like, wait, you know who I am?

[00:27:12] And he's like, yeah, Nicole.

[00:27:14] Like because we were just connected online.

[00:27:16] And I was like, wow, this guy is this guy is insane.

[00:27:20] Like he's so present with people.

[00:27:22] And then we reconnected through NFTs because I was like, you know, very big.

[00:27:26] Yeah, very big NFT personality.

[00:27:29] And his conference was coming up.

[00:27:31] And he would always shout me out on like Twitter spaces and stuff, which was cool.

[00:27:35] But his conference was coming up and I wanted to speak at it.

[00:27:41] And I knew a lot of the people.

[00:27:42] Yeah, VCon.

[00:27:43] I knew a lot of the people at Vayner.

[00:27:46] And one of them was just like, aren't you friends with him?

[00:27:49] Just reach out to him.

[00:27:51] And I was like, okay, good point.

[00:27:52] So I sent him an email at like four in the morning because I know he's up early.

[00:27:57] And I knew when to send it.

[00:27:59] And I'm like, Gary, I want to speak at VCon.

[00:28:01] And he literally just sent like CC'd the email to the guy who was setting up VCon.

[00:28:08] And he's like, Nicole speaking, make her a moderator.

[00:28:10] You know?

[00:28:11] I love that.

[00:28:12] And the other thing I'll say about him is if Gary is talking to any human being, it doesn't matter who it is, if there is the most famous celebrity and the biggest billionaire in the world literally could be Jeff Bezos.

[00:28:27] And they're waiting to talk to him.

[00:28:29] He will finish the conversation with that person and then shift.

[00:28:33] He does not give preferential treatment to people who are certain status or whatever.

[00:28:38] He's so present with people.

[00:28:40] And so Gary's one of the people in this world that I think very, very powerful on so many levels.

[00:28:48] And so it's really cool to hear that he's on your board.

[00:28:50] That's huge.

[00:28:51] I've seen a couple.

[00:28:52] I concur with you.

[00:28:54] I've seen a couple examples.

[00:28:55] A couple things I can't really share, but I've seen behind the scenes who he is on social media is who he is behind the scenes.

[00:29:04] I've seen him be a channel right in front of my eyes and predict things that we were working on or we ended up working on that we would.

[00:29:15] I've seen him also take feedback, criticism, and rejection gracefully.

[00:29:23] I saw the behind the scenes of it.

[00:29:24] Yeah, I've seen it.

[00:29:25] I've seen it in group text messages.

[00:29:28] Yeah.

[00:29:28] So people always ask me, you know, is it real?

[00:29:31] And I said I've seen firsthand that it's even more real behind the scenes than what they're seeing on social media.

[00:29:38] So yeah, he definitely deserves the credit.

[00:29:40] Yeah, no, he definitely does.

[00:29:43] I want to talk to you a little bit about relationships because it comes up in Kabbalah a lot.

[00:29:51] Yeah.

[00:29:51] I think it's something.

[00:29:53] Health, wealth, and relationships are like the three main areas.

[00:29:56] Three main buckets that people are looking for.

[00:29:59] For help with.

[00:30:00] And so with, I don't know what's going on in our current, you know, climate.

[00:30:10] It's a little bit different.

[00:30:11] But marriage is still, you know, we still have a 50% plus divorce rate.

[00:30:17] Yep.

[00:30:19] It's still hard for people to find a soulmate.

[00:30:25] I hear tons of statistics, which frankly, I don't give a shit about the statistics.

[00:30:30] I have to be honest with you.

[00:30:31] I don't care so much about the statistics because I feel like they're used so much in politics to be like, oh, well, we need to be traditional and women need to stop being career babes.

[00:30:44] And there's like a whole thing.

[00:30:45] And everyone has such an agenda.

[00:30:47] One thing I love about you when we're in Kabbalah, every time you're like Republican, Democrat, throw that out the window.

[00:30:52] It doesn't matter.

[00:30:53] And I totally agree.

[00:30:54] I totally agree.

[00:30:56] Um, but, but I do want to talk to you about the state of relationships and maybe also what people need to be looking for in terms of finding a good long-term partner.

[00:31:12] That's a great question.

[00:31:14] First, I'll say, I think we need to define soulmate.

[00:31:19] And Kabbalah explains that a soulmate is not just one person and it's not a person, it's a soul.

[00:31:26] So for example, a person can experience many different iterations of a soulmate in one lifetime because the goal of why we came down to this world is to evolve the soul, transform all the negativity we came to the world with and have what's called affinity of form with the creator.

[00:31:41] So if the creator has XYZ positive qualities, our job is to transform our negativity, our anger, our control issues, our fears, our fear of abandonment, our traumas, all the stuff we even bring from past lives to be like the creator.

[00:31:56] That's how we access miracles.

[00:31:57] In order to achieve this, each one of our souls picks our parents that are perfect to see what our negativity is and to transform it.

[00:32:05] So for example, if my soul comes to this world with a fear of abandonment that I brought from a prior lifetime and I need to correct this and transform it, my soul may choose parents that are perfect for me to see and awaken my fear of abandonment.

[00:32:19] It's not, and maybe I'll pick parents that get divorced eventually.

[00:32:23] It's not that the divorce is what's causing the trauma.

[00:32:28] It's that I picked parents who will get divorced to awaken the trauma so that I can see it, not be a victim about it, transform it and become like the creator and then access the world of miracles.

[00:32:38] That being said, the soul also chooses and draws every soul that, every relationship it has, you know, in high school, in college, the ones that hurt you, the ones that helped you, the ones that love you.

[00:32:50] So each one of these are actually a fragment of the soulmate coming to build your vessel to receive long-term fulfillment.

[00:32:59] Now, if we don't transform from these relationships, if we don't learn lessons, if we don't take full responsibility, even the most abusive ones, we don't actually change our vessel.

[00:33:08] So we're going to keep attracting the same kind of energy.

[00:33:11] Not only that, but let's say somebody is married to someone and they're not fulfilled.

[00:33:15] So they may say, well, I'm not really with my soulmate.

[00:33:18] However, I see this a lot.

[00:33:19] People come to Kabbalah 1 and they say that and they say, well, should I stay or leave the relationship?

[00:33:23] I say, you know what, Kabbalah 1 is three months long.

[00:33:25] It's 10 sessions, three months long.

[00:33:27] Don't do anything for three months.

[00:33:28] I want you to become the best version of yourself as you learn this wisdom in the next three months.

[00:33:32] And let's see what happens.

[00:33:33] What does happen is sometimes they transform so much, more in three months than they did in 10 years,

[00:33:40] that they earn the soul of their soulmate entering into the body of their current husband.

[00:33:47] So literally what you have now is a brand new husband who has a new soul or an additional soul that then makes this relationship fulfilling.

[00:33:54] I saw it recently, whereas there was a woman coming to study and she said, you know, my husband is not spiritual at all.

[00:33:59] He doesn't enjoy any of this.

[00:34:01] He's actually this, that, and the other thing.

[00:34:02] He's stubborn.

[00:34:03] He's angry.

[00:34:04] He's selfish.

[00:34:04] I said, don't worry.

[00:34:06] You transform.

[00:34:08] Let's see what happens.

[00:34:09] And what ended up happening is, actually, it's in your class, and you heard him say it.

[00:34:14] He basically saw his wife transform so much.

[00:34:20] Something inspired him.

[00:34:21] He became a whole different person.

[00:34:22] And now he's coming to class and he's learning and studying and it's changing his life.

[00:34:26] So the idea is that we can transform so much.

[00:34:29] We can elevate our consciousness so much.

[00:34:31] We can elevate our vibration so much that we actually draw new souls into our lives.

[00:34:36] We draw new soulmates.

[00:34:37] And the bodies could look the same, but the souls change.

[00:34:40] That's how in control we are of our lives.

[00:34:43] So what I'll tell people is the answer is always elevate your consciousness.

[00:34:48] Elevate your certainty.

[00:34:50] Elevate your giving nature.

[00:34:54] Elevate transforming and healing traumas.

[00:34:56] There's so much, right?

[00:34:57] Kabbalah goes deep into every single thing we need to do.

[00:35:00] I'm just kind of giving you a little taste.

[00:35:02] But the elevation of this consciousness and the transformation of soul is what will guarantee you the absolute best outcome in relationships.

[00:35:10] Some people need to go through more of this transformational experience when they're single.

[00:35:16] So for them, it'll take longer.

[00:35:18] But they can speed it up through the work.

[00:35:21] Some people actually begin their spiritual process after they meet someone.

[00:35:25] So what will happen is it will happen quicker for them because their real work is with a partner, not by themselves.

[00:35:33] The real fears come up when the partner comes.

[00:35:36] The real fears come up when this relationship kind of goes into its second, third, fourth year.

[00:35:40] The real fears come up when they have a child and the child makes things very difficult.

[00:35:45] And hormones are challenging and postpartum is challenging.

[00:35:49] And then all this stuff comes up.

[00:35:51] Often men and women experience this.

[00:35:54] Wait a minute.

[00:35:54] My husband became totally different after we had kids.

[00:35:56] My wife became totally different when we had kids.

[00:35:59] Well, that was the whole point.

[00:36:00] The whole point was you guys came together to experience this challenge to see each other's shadow side, to see each other's garbage, these fears, so you can transform them.

[00:36:09] Not to blame the other person.

[00:36:11] If you don't, you'll attract the same person.

[00:36:13] And if you still don't, then a person will die and experience a reincarnation.

[00:36:17] We'll experience the same thing again.

[00:36:19] Wow.

[00:36:20] Yeah.

[00:36:21] So a lot of the relationships we have now, we've actually had them thousands of times and we just didn't transform.

[00:36:26] We talk about this with suicide too, by the way.

[00:36:28] And I've never talked about suicide in a podcast, but I feel called to do so.

[00:36:31] Okay, go ahead.

[00:36:32] It's probably, again, every time I've shared this story, someone has written to me and saying that it actually helped them while they were suicidal.

[00:36:42] So I'll share it.

[00:36:43] Please.

[00:36:45] When a person has a desire to take their life, this desire, it's not the first time they've had the desire.

[00:36:51] Let's say a person is 36 years old, three months, three days old.

[00:36:58] And exactly at 10, 20 a.m., they feel really in a despondent place, no control.

[00:37:05] There's X, Y, and Z negative things happening.

[00:37:07] It's very painful.

[00:37:09] And they're thinking the only chance, the only thing left is to take their life.

[00:37:12] This desire that they're having, actually they've had it hundreds, if not thousands of lifetimes before.

[00:37:18] That exactly at the age of 36, three months and three days at 10, 20, this strong feeling to take their life comes in.

[00:37:27] And they've taken it.

[00:37:28] And what happens is the soul leaves.

[00:37:31] And when the soul leaves the body, it sees the whole picture.

[00:37:34] It actually sees why all these negative things are happening.

[00:37:36] It sees it as an opportunity.

[00:37:37] It actually sees that 10 minutes after they took their life, everything was going to open up.

[00:37:42] Because no darkness comes without a solution.

[00:37:45] We may think we'll never get out of it, but the creator has already created the solution and it's actually very imminent.

[00:37:53] So the most difficult time of your lives is often moments before the breakthrough comes.

[00:37:58] So the soul actually sees and is in pain of the missed opportunity.

[00:38:02] The soul even sees that it did it a thousand times before.

[00:38:05] So the soul begs to come back into the same situation, different body, same pain, and to have that same desire to leave the world at age 36, three months and three days.

[00:38:18] Wow.

[00:38:19] And all they have to do is hold on.

[00:38:23] All they have to do is hold on.

[00:38:24] And there's one girl who came to my Kabbalah 1.

[00:38:29] She shared the story at the end of Kabbalah 1.

[00:38:31] Yeah.

[00:38:31] She said, today is the anniversary of when I was supposed to take my life.

[00:38:37] And she said, about four months ago, I was in so much pain.

[00:38:40] I was obese.

[00:38:42] I had just gone through a bad breakup.

[00:38:44] I felt there was no reason to live.

[00:38:46] And I started to look into how I could take my life.

[00:38:53] I saw the Power of Kabbalah book on my shelf.

[00:38:55] And I realized it's something my dad had given to me years ago before he passed.

[00:38:59] And I opened it up.

[00:39:01] And I started reading it.

[00:39:02] And I said, maybe it's a sign that I shouldn't take my life.

[00:39:05] There was some spirituality to this.

[00:39:06] She started reading it.

[00:39:07] And then she looked at the back of the book.

[00:39:08] She called the Kabbalah Center.

[00:39:09] This was a class starting in one week.

[00:39:11] So she said, all right, maybe that's a sign.

[00:39:13] The class ends in three months.

[00:39:14] So she actually marks her calendar.

[00:39:15] That's the day she's going to take her life.

[00:39:17] She's like, if this class doesn't change her life, she's going to take her life.

[00:39:20] But long story short, Kabbalah completely changed her life.

[00:39:23] She had lost weight.

[00:39:24] She got into a new relationship.

[00:39:26] It was such a profound story.

[00:39:28] She came and gave it as a keynote at an event we had for 3,000 people.

[00:39:33] And she basically said, I thought there was no hope.

[00:39:36] I thank God there was a spark from the creator to just let me hold on for a couple more months.

[00:39:42] And so people need to know that when you think there's nothing left, you're very close.

[00:39:48] You're very close to the revelation.

[00:39:50] So just hold on.

[00:39:52] Do anything you can just to have strength, be positive, act like the creator, even if you have to fake it.

[00:39:58] And then there will be a force from above that will rescue you and help you and open your eyes.

[00:40:02] When you say act like the creator, I don't know that people know what that means.

[00:40:07] Right.

[00:40:09] So all of Kabbalah explains how to act like the creator.

[00:40:14] What are the qualities of the creator?

[00:40:15] The first one we learn in the first session is when a challenge occurs, what will happen is you're going to feel one of three things.

[00:40:24] You're going to feel some form of lack, some form of fear, some form of pain, doubt.

[00:40:30] These feelings will come up.

[00:40:33] We all don't like feeling lack or pain.

[00:40:36] So what we do is we want to immediately soothe it.

[00:40:39] So what we end up doing is becoming reactive.

[00:40:42] Reactive behavior, by definition, is any thought, word, or action which comes from lack or fear in order to connect to instant gratification and remove that pain.

[00:40:54] So anything you do from lack or fear is considered reactive.

[00:40:58] Reactive is opposite the creator's quality, which is proactive.

[00:41:02] And as a result, you disconnect from this infinite light force, which creates miracles.

[00:41:06] So even if you think you're in the right, even if you think that being reactive is the right way to manifest things, and even if the results come in that moment, you're actually disconnecting from this infinite force of miracles.

[00:41:18] And eventually you'll have emptiness.

[00:41:20] So Kabbalah teaches, as soon as you feel pain and lack, just pause and actually say, what a pleasure.

[00:41:28] The exact opposite of what you normally do.

[00:41:29] What a pleasure that I have the opportunity now to transform this lack.

[00:41:33] Instead of feeling the lack, instead of shopping, traveling, medicating, just pause.

[00:41:41] Imagine you just went through the breakup.

[00:41:43] Imagine you just let go of a toxic relationship and you feel really good that you did it.

[00:41:49] But then a week goes by and you start to feel the emptiness, which often happens when a person lets go of a relationship.

[00:41:55] You start to forget all the bad qualities they had and you miss that energy.

[00:41:59] Yeah.

[00:42:01] So most likely this is where reactive behavior is about to start.

[00:42:05] Person does a couple of things.

[00:42:06] Number one, they might just text the person because they're looking for a little instant gratification.

[00:42:09] That's reactive, that disconnects you from the light and pushes your soulmate away.

[00:42:15] Or you may not text them, but go on their social media and troll them or look at their photos, look, see who they're dating, see what's going on, investigate their stories.

[00:42:26] All of that is you're just trying to feed your lack, trying to control the situation.

[00:42:29] Also disconnecting you from the light of the creator, also pushing away your soulmate.

[00:42:34] You may call up a friend and try to snoop and ask questions.

[00:42:38] Bottom line is these are all ways you're trying to self-soothe.

[00:42:41] What should you do?

[00:42:42] Say, well, what a wonderful opportunity for me to act like the creator now.

[00:42:46] Transform lifetimes of lack that I haven't.

[00:42:49] So you pause and say, oh, what a pleasure that I feel this lack.

[00:42:53] I'm not going to take any energy.

[00:42:56] I'm just going to sit here and feel the pain and love the pain.

[00:43:00] Embrace the pain.

[00:43:01] Breathe through the pain.

[00:43:02] Whatever technique you have, just don't look to solve the doubt.

[00:43:09] Don't look for the knowledge to just feel good for that moment.

[00:43:16] That's just one example of how to become like the creator.

[00:43:19] Transforming reactive to proactive by pausing, saying what a pleasure and embracing the process.

[00:43:24] We learn many, many, many, many more qualities.

[00:43:27] If you combine all these qualities together, you're living in the miraculous world.

[00:43:30] Would the creator block the person?

[00:43:33] It's a good question.

[00:43:37] It always comes down to intention.

[00:43:39] Why are you blocking?

[00:43:41] Are you blocking to manipulate?

[00:43:42] Are you blocking to send a message?

[00:43:45] Are you blocking to get them to respond to you?

[00:43:49] If you're just blocking because, you know, you want to move on and you don't want to be reminded of them,

[00:43:56] or maybe they're reaching out to you so it's not allowing your process to unfold, fine.

[00:44:01] It always comes down to intention.

[00:44:03] Kabbalah doesn't talk about right or wrong.

[00:44:05] That's why we don't get into Republican, Democrat, this, that Kabbalah rises above everything and says,

[00:44:10] what's the consciousness?

[00:44:12] What's the intention?

[00:44:13] The intention is positive.

[00:44:16] You'll be fine.

[00:44:17] If the intention is manipulation, control, you'll be repeating this over and over again.

[00:44:24] You won't get what you want.

[00:44:28] Okay, I got it.

[00:44:30] I have a question about soulmates and lust because a lot of times when people get into relationships,

[00:44:43] sometimes there's this emotionally addictive quality to the relationship that people confuse as love.

[00:44:51] Oh, I'm in love with this person.

[00:44:52] But really it's infatuation that is born from the inconsistency of this person.

[00:45:02] Whereas a healthy love is more consistent, more stable, thus maybe not as exciting.

[00:45:10] And I'm wondering, because people like the feeling of lust.

[00:45:13] They like passion.

[00:45:14] They like excitement.

[00:45:15] Is it possible to feel lust for your soulmate?

[00:45:22] So let's break down the question.

[00:45:25] A person can be with their soulmate and still have chaos.

[00:45:28] A person can be with their soulmate and not enjoy.

[00:45:30] A person can even want to divorce their soulmate.

[00:45:34] A soulmate isn't a be-all, end-all, joyous process.

[00:45:39] The soulmate is any person who's activating your process.

[00:45:42] Remember, we said we have many soulmates.

[00:45:43] So lust or infatuation most likely is feeding a spiritual parasitic part of us, which is only limiting us.

[00:45:59] Remove the parasite.

[00:46:00] Starve the parasite and you'll reach a higher level of fulfillment and consciousness.

[00:46:04] So for example, a person came to me and said, you know, my boyfriend cheated on me.

[00:46:10] And I broke up with him.

[00:46:12] But you know what?

[00:46:13] I miss him.

[00:46:13] I want to take him back.

[00:46:14] What do you think?

[00:46:15] And I looked at her in the eyes.

[00:46:17] I realized one thing.

[00:46:19] She's going to do this no matter what.

[00:46:21] So I said, you should absolutely take him back and enjoy it.

[00:46:24] And guess what?

[00:46:25] It's probably going to cheat on you again, but that's okay.

[00:46:27] Because you'll go through a lot of pain and you're going to learn.

[00:46:30] What's the problem?

[00:46:31] She smiled and said, thank you so much.

[00:46:33] Because she was going to do it anyways.

[00:46:35] So it's not about right or wrong.

[00:46:37] It's about realizing that you're going to get to the same place anyways.

[00:46:41] If she were to say no to him and just go through the lack and learn, feel that pain, feel that withdrawal of that addiction,

[00:46:49] she will transform.

[00:46:50] And with the right consciousness, the right mentors, the right spirituality,

[00:46:54] she'll achieve a very high level of consciousness having not gone through that toxic relationship.

[00:47:00] However, she decides to dive headfirst into it.

[00:47:05] She'll also go through a lot of pain.

[00:47:08] And she'll eventually, maybe years later, experience the same lesson and the same elevated consciousness.

[00:47:14] So I tell people it's not about right or wrong.

[00:47:16] You're going to get to that place your soul was always meant to get to.

[00:47:19] If you do it the spiritual way, it'll go faster and it'll be more merciful.

[00:47:24] You'll have more miracles.

[00:47:26] If you do it through the comfortable way, it's fine.

[00:47:30] You'll go through pain.

[00:47:32] For example, alcohol.

[00:47:34] I don't know about you, but it makes me feel horrible the next day.

[00:47:36] I never drink.

[00:47:37] You never drink.

[00:47:37] It's very rare that I'd ever drink.

[00:47:39] I've probably cut out 99% of it sometimes.

[00:47:41] Sometimes, you know, I'm like, you know what?

[00:47:43] I'm going to have a little drink and I'm going to have some fun with my friends.

[00:47:47] And guess what?

[00:47:47] I'm going to feel horrible in the morning and that's okay.

[00:47:50] I'm going to, in the morning, I'll remember it wasn't worth it.

[00:47:54] Yeah.

[00:47:55] But we still do it because there is a part of us that likes to experience.

[00:47:58] So what I'll tell everybody is anything that you're relying on for your happiness eventually will be taken away from you.

[00:48:07] So the secret is how to get to a place, even through meditation, where you're not relying on it.

[00:48:14] So one of the things, for example, I'll do is if I have success, I will visualize not having the success.

[00:48:22] And visualizing it from the point of view is saying, do I still love myself?

[00:48:26] Do I still respect myself if I didn't have money?

[00:48:30] Do I still respect myself if I didn't have this gift or that gift?

[00:48:34] I don't know.

[00:48:36] You know, I did this exercise even with my social media.

[00:48:38] I didn't have a following.

[00:48:40] And then all of a sudden I had a little bit of followings.

[00:48:42] So I started to visualize not having a following.

[00:48:44] Because I was so afraid that people following you and maybe respecting you or maybe saying good things, it starts to build a dependence energetically.

[00:48:53] So what happens all of a sudden if this is taken away?

[00:48:55] What happens when people speak poorly of you?

[00:48:57] You enter into a depression.

[00:48:59] But what's interesting is once you get to a certain level of status or following, and this happens with everyone, so I'm sure it's happening with you.

[00:49:08] There are some people that will speak badly about you just because that's what happens.

[00:49:15] Yeah, yesterday I had somebody write to me and saying, you're the worst person I've ever met in my life.

[00:49:19] I never met this person.

[00:49:20] It was just, I don't know what it was.

[00:49:22] Maybe it was a bot, maybe it wasn't.

[00:49:23] But I asked myself, I looked at it and I said, oh, what a pleasure.

[00:49:26] I said, this is really good.

[00:49:29] But what's interesting was a couple months ago, somebody hacked my account and I lost everything for a couple days.

[00:49:36] And I didn't know.

[00:49:36] And actually, I talked to some people and said, oh, this is really bad.

[00:49:39] It was so sophisticated, I wasn't going to get the account back.

[00:49:43] And I said to myself, well, I guess that wasn't meant to be.

[00:49:46] And this is after I had already gotten a lot of traction.

[00:49:49] I did feel the pain for a little bit.

[00:49:51] And I saw the pain that I felt was my attachment to, my ego attachment to what that was supposed to do for me.

[00:49:58] So the pain to the extent of the pain is to the extent of your attachment to something external as your God, as opposed to awakening the light of God inside of you.

[00:50:09] So I felt the pain, but then I realized, well, this is the pain of what I need to transform.

[00:50:13] And then I got really excited about losing the account.

[00:50:16] I got really excited because I said the most important thing is that I am fully self-sufficient in my godliness.

[00:50:24] If the creator wants me to spread this wisdom great, if it doesn't, he'll find a different way to do it.

[00:50:28] Why does it need to be through me?

[00:50:30] And then I think like 72 hours, it came back.

[00:50:33] The point is many times we're with people in a relationship, but we need them so badly.

[00:50:40] We lean on them for energy so badly that they become primary and the creator becomes secondary to us.

[00:50:48] The creator is a nice concept, whatever, but we're so addicted.

[00:50:52] Anything you're addicted to must be taken away because it's idol worship.

[00:50:55] It's like you're never going to fulfill your potential that way.

[00:50:59] So I literally try to write down what am I addicted to?

[00:51:03] What if I had, if I lose today, I would fall into a depression.

[00:51:08] And then I visualize losing it.

[00:51:10] Now everybody says, well, what about if you visualize losing something, aren't you creating that reality?

[00:51:16] The answer is no.

[00:51:18] That concept of visualizing creates the reality is only if those thoughts come to you externally, reactively.

[00:51:26] For example, if I'm just driving and all of a sudden I have doubts, worries, and anxieties about losing all my money.

[00:51:31] And I think about those and I get worried.

[00:51:33] I go, my God, these X, oh my God, what if it does happen?

[00:51:36] I start worrying about my future.

[00:51:37] That's what manifests it.

[00:51:38] So that's an external intrusive thought, not coming on my timeline, infiltrating my mind and then me holding onto it.

[00:51:47] However, if I sit down and I proactively visualize my death, I will have more life.

[00:51:55] If I proactively visualize losing a relationship to see what that feels like because I want to see where my addictions are, I create life.

[00:52:02] The same way the cells in our body proactively die so they're reborn and rejuvenate, this is called anti-aging.

[00:52:10] When the cells stop doing that, they become cancer cells.

[00:52:13] So we need to meditate on letting everything go in order to refresh it all the time.

[00:52:19] You go to the gym to break down your cells in order to regrow stronger ones.

[00:52:25] You do that proactively.

[00:52:26] For example, cold plunging is a very interesting fact.

[00:52:28] If I meditate to go into a cold plunge intentionally for three minutes, there's all these health benefits.

[00:52:35] If someone throws me into a cold pool that is the same temperature and I feel like I'm about to die and I'm flailing my arms trying to get out and I'm in there for three minutes, there's no health benefits.

[00:52:48] Wow.

[00:52:49] So I have the same exposure to cold for three minutes.

[00:52:52] One has health benefits, one doesn't.

[00:52:53] Why?

[00:52:53] Because the first one I did with intention and consciousness.

[00:52:56] The third one, I was pushed into it.

[00:53:00] So I do not have the health benefits.

[00:53:01] Same with the gym.

[00:53:03] If you're at the gym and you're meditating on those muscles and you're thinking about them and you're conscious of them while you're working out, studies show that you have more strength, your muscles grow so on and so forth.

[00:53:12] But if you're thinking about something else, your mind is elsewhere.

[00:53:14] You don't have as much energy.

[00:53:16] Okay.

[00:53:17] Wow.

[00:53:18] Yeah.

[00:53:19] I want to go back to the soulmate lust thing really quickly because I want to give you a specific type of example.

[00:53:28] What is your audience going through?

[00:53:29] Like what is your audience usually going through?

[00:53:31] This is one thing that.

[00:53:33] Because I want us to channel the audiences.

[00:53:35] Yeah, I know, Micah.

[00:53:36] My audience is going through this.

[00:53:37] So I have a guy friend who has been married for 12, 13 years.

[00:53:45] Okay.

[00:53:46] Okay.

[00:53:48] All of a sudden.

[00:53:49] How old is he?

[00:53:51] He is 30 something.

[00:53:54] What sign is he?

[00:53:55] I don't know.

[00:53:56] Okay.

[00:53:57] I don't know.

[00:53:58] Nationality?

[00:53:58] But this.

[00:53:59] All this matters.

[00:54:00] This.

[00:54:01] Does it all?

[00:54:02] I ask these questions because it helps me draw that soul in the discussion so I have a more clear answer.

[00:54:09] But it's okay if you don't want to share.

[00:54:10] Okay.

[00:54:11] So, well, just because I've seen this so much.

[00:54:14] I've seen it with men, women.

[00:54:15] Yep.

[00:54:15] I'm just giving you the specific example.

[00:54:16] More general example.

[00:54:17] Sure.

[00:54:18] So.

[00:54:19] Married 12 years.

[00:54:21] With.

[00:54:21] Mid-30s.

[00:54:22] Yeah.

[00:54:22] So with this, with his wife, best friends, you know, got married a long time ago.

[00:54:33] The, I guess the like sexual component isn't there.

[00:54:37] Sure.

[00:54:38] Or whatever.

[00:54:39] But he meets, he meets new, you know, new people all the time.

[00:54:46] And he met a woman at his kid's school.

[00:54:50] And they're, you know, they're sort of like excited about each other.

[00:54:54] But nobody's.

[00:54:55] Nobody's cheating.

[00:54:56] Nobody's cheating.

[00:54:57] Nobody's cheating.

[00:54:58] But there is, there is an excitement that is new and different from the relationships, I guess.

[00:55:08] Yeah.

[00:55:09] That they're in.

[00:55:10] Sure.

[00:55:11] So can, can he do something to ignite that same excitement with his wife?

[00:55:20] Because I would say that what he's experiencing with the other woman who's also married.

[00:55:26] Yeah.

[00:55:26] AKA unavailable.

[00:55:27] Yeah.

[00:55:28] Is lust, newness, excitement.

[00:55:30] Oh my God.

[00:55:31] The attention, the, you know what I mean?

[00:55:33] I mean, the likes, the whatever.

[00:55:36] So, and by the way, I've heard this story a million times.

[00:55:38] So have I.

[00:55:41] So if this guy was sitting in front of me, a lot of times people are looking for the,

[00:55:45] what's the right thing to do or the wrong thing to do?

[00:55:48] What is, what's the advice of how to, I try to throw all of these outlines and textbooks

[00:55:55] out the window and I try to really listen to the soul of the person.

[00:55:58] What is, what is good for the soul of the person?

[00:56:01] Everyone has a different process.

[00:56:02] That's why we can never judge it.

[00:56:04] I've, I've probably done 30,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and I've heard every story imaginable.

[00:56:12] I've heard mob confessions.

[00:56:13] I've heard, I've heard so many different things.

[00:56:18] And what I've learned is each person deserves a unique answer that is for their soul.

[00:56:24] If we have to give a general answer.

[00:56:26] Okay.

[00:56:27] I would first ask this person, what do you want?

[00:56:30] Let's start with what you want because you will always be led towards what you want.

[00:56:36] Do you want lust?

[00:56:37] Is it intimacy you're looking for?

[00:56:40] Are you not being respected?

[00:56:43] Let's get clear.

[00:56:45] So I'll ask these questions and eventually, first thing they always say is not the answer.

[00:56:49] It's always a little bit deeper than that.

[00:56:50] So I'll keep digging and digging and digging.

[00:56:53] Once they're more clear about what they want, he may say, I 100% want an exciting feeling.

[00:57:01] And I say, well, if that's what you want, do you think that it can be achieved with your wife?

[00:57:09] Yes, no.

[00:57:10] Let's talk about it.

[00:57:11] Is there a way?

[00:57:13] Because there'll be a big price by not going down that path.

[00:57:17] Yeah.

[00:57:17] And you start asking questions.

[00:57:19] Because who knows?

[00:57:20] Maybe this woman at the school is the soulmate.

[00:57:22] Maybe it's not.

[00:57:23] We don't know these things.

[00:57:24] We don't know.

[00:57:26] We just don't know.

[00:57:27] So we have to be very sensitive to the soul of the person and ask the right questions that

[00:57:33] are sensitive to them.

[00:57:34] We come in all self-righteous about how things should be.

[00:57:38] And that never works.

[00:57:41] There's no textbook of how people should deal with stuff.

[00:57:44] What I would say that is probably universal to everyone.

[00:57:50] I had a guy once come in.

[00:57:51] He's lost his traction for his wife.

[00:57:54] So I closed my eyes and I said, do you watch pornography?

[00:57:58] He says, yes.

[00:58:00] I said, anything else?

[00:58:02] He's like, I masturbate a lot.

[00:58:07] And there's another woman that I flirt with.

[00:58:10] He went on and on about that.

[00:58:11] This was in New York City.

[00:58:13] So I said to him, I want to try something with you.

[00:58:16] Try not.

[00:58:17] I said, try not to do anything.

[00:58:21] Just let me have the experiment.

[00:58:22] The A-B experiment.

[00:58:23] We're like, you know, it's like in the business world.

[00:58:27] You're trying to optimize a website.

[00:58:28] You experiment.

[00:58:29] Try this.

[00:58:29] You try this image.

[00:58:30] You try this price.

[00:58:31] What works?

[00:58:33] Everybody thinks their baby is beautiful.

[00:58:35] I think an image looks good.

[00:58:37] The rest of the population thinks it's ugly.

[00:58:39] But everyone, you know, we're blind.

[00:58:42] So I said to him, let's go two weeks.

[00:58:44] No pornography.

[00:58:46] No masturbation.

[00:58:47] Don't talk to this other girl.

[00:58:48] Two weeks.

[00:58:49] Come back to him and tell me what happens.

[00:58:51] I said, come back two weeks.

[00:58:52] And he says, I feel very attracted to my wife.

[00:58:55] So what was happening there, again, not everyone's the same way.

[00:58:58] But what was happening there was his energy was going in so many different places.

[00:59:04] It wasn't building the vessel that is his wife.

[00:59:07] And so he didn't see his wife as attractive because energy was going all over the place.

[00:59:11] So that's one way I would experiment with the man.

[00:59:13] I would say, listen, I agree.

[00:59:15] Maybe this woman at the school is exciting.

[00:59:17] And this and that.

[00:59:17] I get it.

[00:59:19] We're not going to dispute that.

[00:59:20] But why don't we try something for a couple weeks to preserve your energy?

[00:59:27] And then tell me what that feels like.

[00:59:28] And tell me what this feels like.

[00:59:29] Because often what happens is people just react to the first feeling they have.

[00:59:33] And then they have to, they go through years of pain and suffering and chaos to go back and fix it again.

[00:59:39] So I think it's very important to have people take a step back, let go, and see what the real desire is.

[00:59:46] What are they really looking for?

[00:59:49] Maybe this guy is not attracted to his wife because his wife yells at him all the time.

[00:59:52] It could be as simple as, let's talk to his wife and say, hey, look.

[00:59:56] Don't yell at him so much.

[00:59:57] Don't yell at him so much.

[00:59:58] He'll be more attractive.

[00:59:59] You know what I'm saying?

[00:59:59] Yeah.

[00:59:59] There's always a solution.

[01:00:00] So I try to always find by removing all the reactive variables and seeing what is left.

[01:00:07] By the way, sometimes after you remove all those variables, they say, I still don't feel it for my wife.

[01:00:12] Okay.

[01:00:13] Well, let's talk about a process of what that looks like.

[01:00:16] Right?

[01:00:17] So there's steps.

[01:00:18] My point is I'm always trying to have people go through the steps so they don't have to repeat the steps.

[01:00:24] This lifetime, next lifetime.

[01:00:26] That's what it's about.

[01:00:27] No judgment.

[01:00:30] You've seen it all.

[01:00:31] I've seen it all.

[01:00:32] You've seen it all.

[01:00:32] And here's something else I learned.

[01:00:35] If I was in that person's shoes and I had their past life and I had their parents and I had their negative traits and I had their soul, I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt, I would be doing the same thing they're doing.

[01:00:47] So us sitting here pointing, I can't believe you're doing this.

[01:00:50] You're doing that.

[01:00:51] You know, you see like Jews, Palestinians, this, Republicans, Democrat.

[01:00:55] I guarantee you, how could they say this?

[01:00:58] I guarantee you.

[01:00:59] If you were in their position, you would do the same thing.

[01:01:03] Exact same thing.

[01:01:03] That's exactly how I feel.

[01:01:04] At least start there.

[01:01:05] Yeah.

[01:01:06] At least start there.

[01:01:07] And then once you can feel that, then the universe would give you more wisdom of how to deal with the situation.

[01:01:15] Okay.

[01:01:16] That's really powerful.

[01:01:17] That is really powerful.

[01:01:19] I want to talk about you for a second because-

[01:01:21] Before you continue, I'm going to share one more thing.

[01:01:25] What I just shared wasn't really a direct answer.

[01:01:28] It was a lot of different energies I shared.

[01:01:31] So whoever's listening, the way I shared that is it will reveal in your soul an answer.

[01:01:39] So what will happen is, I don't know, if a million people hear this, a million people, if I ask a million people, what did you hear?

[01:01:45] We have a million different answers.

[01:01:47] Right.

[01:01:48] Part of the reason, that's why if you hear this podcast again in a week, you'll hear it totally different because your soul is different.

[01:01:56] If you hear this in a year, again, you'll get new secrets because we're not revealing lessons.

[01:02:02] We're revealing between us energy and your vessel is different every time you hear it.

[01:02:08] So the energy takes on a new shape and form each time.

[01:02:11] All right.

[01:02:11] You can keep going.

[01:02:12] Sorry to interrupt you.

[01:02:13] Okay.

[01:02:13] No worries.

[01:02:14] So I'm going to have to listen to it again, too, as the interviewer.

[01:02:19] You'll be like, we talked about that?

[01:02:24] So, you know, you built, co-founded and built Mary Ruth Organics.

[01:02:30] Kabbalah teacher.

[01:02:32] Still doing it all these years later.

[01:02:34] Yeah.

[01:02:35] 50% of my time is with Kabbalah.

[01:02:36] And I do that for charity.

[01:02:37] Yeah.

[01:02:38] Yeah.

[01:02:38] I know that.

[01:02:41] Now, you have this presence on social media and you're growing.

[01:02:45] Yeah.

[01:02:46] Is there something that's next for you that's different than what you've been doing?

[01:02:52] Has it opened up something else for you?

[01:02:56] So something that I do, and I believe it will help other people if they do it, too.

[01:03:02] I try to have a lot of free time.

[01:03:06] So despite, you know, having the business and this and that, I try to spend a few hours a day.

[01:03:11] Like this morning, I told you, I woke up early.

[01:03:13] I couldn't sleep.

[01:03:14] So this is a sign I need to do this exercise.

[01:03:17] And for three hours, I walked around my living room.

[01:03:23] Sometimes I do this walking out in the street.

[01:03:25] And I'll just clear my mind and talk out loud to the universe and say, what do you want me to do today?

[01:03:34] There's a couple of questions I ask.

[01:03:35] What do you want me to do today?

[01:03:39] Show me a vision of something you want me to manifest.

[01:03:42] And my whole thing is I need to come up with one.

[01:03:47] I've never shared this.

[01:03:48] I feel like on your podcast, I hope it doesn't come out the wrong way.

[01:03:51] But what is one $100 million idea a year?

[01:03:56] I need to come up with one.

[01:03:57] I started doing this exercise two years ago.

[01:03:59] And any time you just ask yourself that question?

[01:04:02] I've done it twice.

[01:04:03] And it's happened twice in a row.

[01:04:05] So the first time I did it, I came up with the idea for a competitor to Nutrafol, a hair growth product.

[01:04:16] I know that product.

[01:04:16] It does very well.

[01:04:18] It will be $100 million product this year.

[01:04:21] Is it yours?

[01:04:22] Yeah, it's mine.

[01:04:23] Nutrafol is your company?

[01:04:24] No, no, not Nutrafol.

[01:04:25] It's a competitor to Nutrafol.

[01:04:26] Oh, okay, okay, okay.

[01:04:27] I was just like, whoa.

[01:04:28] I was taking Nutrafol myself.

[01:04:32] Even though I own a vitamin company, I'm taking Nutrafol.

[01:04:34] Because it is a good product.

[01:04:35] Yeah.

[01:04:36] And then I've taken these four capsules every night.

[01:04:40] And I'm forgetting to take it.

[01:04:42] And then one night it got lodged in my throat.

[01:04:44] I'm like, what is going on here?

[01:04:45] Like, I said, we have the best scientists in the world to make liquid vitamins.

[01:04:49] And I'm taking a capsule.

[01:04:51] And I know that liquids are more efficacious than capsules.

[01:04:55] Yeah.

[01:04:56] So I prayed on it.

[01:05:01] I saw a vision of a product that was a liquid version.

[01:05:05] But also had clinical trials for hair growth, but faster than Nutrafol.

[01:05:10] And also reduced wrinkles.

[01:05:13] I said, we've got to get clinicals for that.

[01:05:15] And collagen and weight and a multivitamin.

[01:05:19] And I said, we can make it taste good.

[01:05:21] This is a $100 million product.

[01:05:23] I remember just praying, talking to the universe, and then feeling and seeing it.

[01:05:27] And I share this example because if you take the time to cut out the noise and ask the universe what you're meant to do and set a goal, you'll get visions of it.

[01:05:37] The second step is I outline how to manifest visions.

[01:05:40] But I think at the beginning, we need to all start to draw down the visions.

[01:05:44] And I could do this exercise even with you.

[01:05:46] And we had lunch.

[01:05:47] I saw things.

[01:05:49] And I could show you the things that I see for you and what you could do for yourself.

[01:05:55] And then I think nine months later, we came out with the product.

[01:05:58] And then five months later, it's only been five months, but it's on its way to be that.

[01:06:04] Then this year, so that was last year.

[01:06:06] This year, I'm praying, what is the next idea?

[01:06:09] Show me.

[01:06:09] And I saw a vision of something.

[01:06:12] It's only been two months.

[01:06:14] But it's already generating about, you know, three to four million of revenue a month.

[01:06:23] And it's on its way to double every month.

[01:06:25] So I do believe that one will be also.

[01:06:27] But it came through free time, talking out to the creator, talking out to the universe.

[01:06:34] Every religion.

[01:06:35] Everybody can do this.

[01:06:36] Like, people think prayer is like bribing God to give you something, right?

[01:06:39] People pray when they're in a tough situation.

[01:06:42] Remove my problems.

[01:06:44] Prayer for me is not bribing God.

[01:06:46] The light force of God is infinite.

[01:06:48] It's always there.

[01:06:49] It's not limited.

[01:06:50] You don't need to bribe.

[01:06:51] You just need to change the frequency of who you are to receive it.

[01:06:55] So when I'm walking, I'm asking me to become open.

[01:06:59] I'm not asking the creator to fix it.

[01:07:00] The creator's like, why are you yelling at me?

[01:07:02] I've already given everything.

[01:07:03] We have to change our frequency to allow that information in.

[01:07:06] The wisdom is there.

[01:07:08] Who's a good vessel for wisdom?

[01:07:09] Look at Elon Musk.

[01:07:10] He found the combination, the frequency of consciousness,

[01:07:13] to draw down one hundred billion dollar idea after another.

[01:07:20] If Elon Musk came to you and said, give me a million dollars with no business plan,

[01:07:26] you'd give it to him.

[01:07:27] You wouldn't even ask for a business plan.

[01:07:29] People are dying to invest in his companies.

[01:07:31] I know family offices that are like, if you just connect me, I will give you a percentage.

[01:07:37] That's it.

[01:07:38] That's it.

[01:07:38] Why?

[01:07:39] Because we know that he's already fine-tuned his vessel to receive the ideas.

[01:07:45] So he probably has a hundred more ideas.

[01:07:47] He hasn't even touched.

[01:07:48] Anything he touches, he'll do.

[01:07:49] So it's not about the ideas are infinite.

[01:07:53] The ideas are there.

[01:07:54] Whoever's listening to this, there's an idea that's floating around your soul and your aura right now

[01:08:01] that is whatever is meant for you.

[01:08:03] The hundred thousand dollar idea, the one million dollar idea, the hundred million, a billion dollar idea.

[01:08:08] It's there.

[01:08:09] So why aren't you hearing it?

[01:08:11] Because there's something in your soul and frequency that just needs to be tweaked a little bit.

[01:08:16] That's one.

[01:08:17] Number two, if you're a hundred percent busy, you'll never download the idea because subconsciously,

[01:08:24] when we're very busy, all we're looking for is to relax.

[01:08:29] So we're not actually going to summon an idea that's going to make us successful

[01:08:34] because we don't want the extra workload.

[01:08:38] Like I had a student who wasn't growing her company, even though she kept saying she's trying to double her revenue,

[01:08:44] but it's not working.

[01:08:45] When I found out that she hates, what does she hate about the business?

[01:08:48] She hates having employees.

[01:08:50] And so subconsciously, every time a new deal was coming,

[01:08:55] she would sub-subconsciously hope that she didn't get the deal.

[01:08:58] So she doesn't have to hire more employees.

[01:09:02] So we all have this something inside of us that on one hand, we want something.

[01:09:07] On the other hand, we're blocking it.

[01:09:09] Because we don't want it.

[01:09:10] When you resolve that, and Kabbalah teaches how to do that,

[01:09:14] then the idea comes in and then you just got to manifest it, which is a whole, it's a second lesson, right?

[01:09:18] 50% of it is drawing the idea.

[01:09:20] The other 50% is manifesting it.

[01:09:21] By the way, some people are amazing idea generators.

[01:09:24] They have a thousand ideas, but they always trip at the finish line.

[01:09:27] Some people are great manifestors.

[01:09:29] These are usually great employees.

[01:09:32] But they don't know how to draw the vision.

[01:09:36] Each one of us has both.

[01:09:37] And these are also male and female energies, right?

[01:09:40] The male is the one who draws the vision.

[01:09:42] The female is the one who manifests, right?

[01:09:44] So we all have male and female energies inside of us.

[01:09:46] We have male and female souls.

[01:09:47] It's very beautiful.

[01:09:47] Kabbalah explains it.

[01:09:49] We're just not connected to it fully.

[01:09:50] So we don't do anything.

[01:09:52] We wait.

[01:09:53] We depend on other people.

[01:09:54] We get this business partner.

[01:09:56] The business partner screws us.

[01:09:57] The creator is trying to tell you, you had it in you the whole time.

[01:10:00] You didn't need this business partner.

[01:10:01] But because we don't know spirituality, we don't know how the universe works.

[01:10:06] We don't know Kabbalah, which Kabbalah actually means to receive the word Kabbalah.

[01:10:09] We end up thinking we got to do all these other fancy things.

[01:10:13] You know, our branding, some people say our branding is one of the best branding they've ever seen.

[01:10:19] For Mary Ruth?

[01:10:20] Yeah, Mary Ruth's branding.

[01:10:21] The CEO of Whole Foods said it's one of the best brandings he's ever seen.

[01:10:25] He said it brings warmth back into the vitamin aisle.

[01:10:28] And this branding, this logo, cost us $5, $6.

[01:10:35] I took a photo.

[01:10:36] Dang.

[01:10:37] I didn't tell you this?

[01:10:38] I took a photo of Mary Ruth as she was walking.

[01:10:40] I said, stand by the wall.

[01:10:41] I took a photo.

[01:10:42] I said, turn to the side.

[01:10:42] Took a photo.

[01:10:43] She had a little bow in her hair.

[01:10:46] I went on Fiver.

[01:10:47] I found some guy, I think from India.

[01:10:50] Yeah.

[01:10:50] I said, can you make this into a caricature?

[01:10:53] He said, sure.

[01:10:53] It's $5.

[01:10:54] It came back like two hours later.

[01:10:55] And that's the logo?

[01:10:56] That's the logo.

[01:10:57] There was no fancy packaging company.

[01:11:00] Over time, when we had a designer, you know, she tweaked it.

[01:11:03] She made it.

[01:11:04] It used to be an oval.

[01:11:05] She made it into a circle.

[01:11:05] So we refined it.

[01:11:07] Right.

[01:11:07] But people pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for another company to come in.

[01:11:12] By the way, we've done that too sometimes on other stuff.

[01:11:14] Like there are times to bring in the professional.

[01:11:16] Right.

[01:11:17] But my point is, there's also nine out of 10 times you have it inside of you on a soul level.

[01:11:23] You can draw it down.

[01:11:25] So.

[01:11:26] David, last question.

[01:11:27] Yes.

[01:11:28] I ask everyone this question on my podcast.

[01:11:30] Sure.

[01:11:31] So everyone has so many messages that they want to share, but they find it hard to put

[01:11:40] it in order of, you know, what's the most important, what needs to be shared most urgently

[01:11:46] in this world at this moment in time.

[01:11:48] And so I came up with this scenario to narrow it down.

[01:11:53] So this is a scenario.

[01:11:56] You are nominated for Best Documentary, let's say.

[01:12:02] It's either about Kabbalah or building a multi-million dollar vitamin company.

[01:12:10] And they read the nominees.

[01:12:13] They read out the nominees.

[01:12:15] And then they announce the winner.

[01:12:16] And it's you.

[01:12:18] And you walk up to the stage.

[01:12:20] You accept your award.

[01:12:21] You thank everybody that you need to thank.

[01:12:22] Mary Ruth, your kids, your parents, the creator, obviously.

[01:12:30] And once you finish thanking everybody, there's a 45 second to about a minute window where you

[01:12:36] can say whatever you want.

[01:12:37] And then they play the wrap up music.

[01:12:41] It's going to be shared everywhere.

[01:12:43] YouTube reels.

[01:12:44] It's going to live on the Internet forever.

[01:12:46] Whatever.

[01:12:47] What are you going to say in that 45 seconds that you feel most urgently needs to be shared

[01:12:52] to the world right now?

[01:12:54] Don't leave your house feeling any kind of lack or feeling that you need anything.

[01:13:05] The vibration in which you leave your house and start your day, go to your business, engage with your friends, engage with customers, engage with investors.

[01:13:18] That vibration will determine who you attract, what you attract.

[01:13:24] Because lack attracts lack.

[01:13:27] Wholeness attracts wholeness.

[01:13:29] And if I leave my house because I think I need something, I'm just going to attract needy vessels.

[01:13:34] And so that day will go by and manifestation won't occur.

[01:13:37] However, the law of resonance is that whatever I am is what I'm going to attract.

[01:13:49] And every morning when we wake up, our soul experiences a little bit of death.

[01:13:56] The body experiences a little bit of death.

[01:13:59] Death is lack.

[01:14:00] And that is why every morning, no matter how spiritual you are, how successful you are, you're always going to feel like something's missing.

[01:14:05] Because that's what sleep does.

[01:14:07] Sleep connects to death.

[01:14:08] Death, a little, it rejuvenates, but the body experiences a little bit of death.

[01:14:14] And that's why you see the body, you know, person needs to brush their teeth and use their restroom.

[01:14:19] Like there's a death in the morning.

[01:14:21] So take one minute, five minutes, 10 minutes, sit down, meditate.

[01:14:26] You're not missing anything.

[01:14:28] You have everything already.

[01:14:30] You have your soulmate.

[01:14:32] You have success.

[01:14:33] You have wealth.

[01:14:35] You have healing.

[01:14:37] You have wisdom.

[01:14:38] You have certainty.

[01:14:40] Try to feel it inside of you.

[01:14:44] Try to feel it every part of your body.

[01:14:47] When you stand up and you walk out of the house, it's not even you walking.

[01:14:51] Like you feel like you're just energy.

[01:14:53] Your whole day will be different.

[01:14:56] New destiny will come to you.

[01:14:58] The most amazing people will come to you.

[01:15:00] The wrong people will leave you.

[01:15:03] Toxic people will know not to come next to you.

[01:15:08] You'll have a force field, an aura that is so powerful that it's like the king with his army around him.

[01:15:16] People can't get close to the king.

[01:15:17] Are you a king or are you a peasant?

[01:15:20] A king has so many soldiers around him.

[01:15:23] If you come out feeling like a king, you'll have this army of angels around you.

[01:15:28] All the negative people can't get through.

[01:15:30] If you think you're a peasant, everyone will take advantage of you, walk all over you.

[01:15:36] All the mixed feelings, you'll have confusion.

[01:15:39] Wow.

[01:15:40] Well, the music would have started playing like halfway through that.

[01:15:43] Sorry if that was too long.

[01:15:44] No, no.

[01:15:45] We're on a podcast and you're lucky.

[01:15:46] But thank you so much for coming.

[01:15:48] This was so incredible.

[01:15:49] We're going to have to do it again.

[01:15:50] We're going to run it back.

[01:15:51] You know, if there's one thing I can just share, because I'm going to get this question a thousand times.

[01:15:55] Okay.

[01:15:57] You know, if people have questions, people can reach out to me and they're going to reach out to you.

[01:16:05] You know, I have a feeling we'll probably do this again also.

[01:16:09] If a person wants to learn more, the class that you're taking, I filmed it.

[01:16:14] Six years ago.

[01:16:15] And I put it on a master class and I made it a pay what you can model.

[01:16:19] You can pay zero dollars if you want.

[01:16:21] It's all charity.

[01:16:22] But it is the most life changing course.

[01:16:25] Everything we talked about here, a person can learn.

[01:16:27] I have hundreds of thousands of people around the world listening to it.

[01:16:31] And I created it because I want people's lives to change.

[01:16:34] The website is kabbalahone.com.

[01:16:37] K-A-B-B-A-L-A-H-O-N-E.com.

[01:16:43] And that's it.

[01:16:44] I don't monetize my platform.

[01:16:45] All of this goes to charity, whatever people want to give.

[01:16:48] But that, I promise them, after one session will change your life.

[01:16:51] Beautiful.

[01:16:52] Thank you, Craig.

[01:16:53] Thanks, David.